WE LIVE IN A SOCIETY WHERE PEOPLE BLAME THE VICTIM, NOT THE PERPETUATORHere are the messages of the other girls that messaged her on social media claiming that they also suffered the same fate as her:
I know everyone has already made their own versions of the story, and that there are still some people who are wondering how it all happened. I'm going to narrate the whole story to everyone especially to those who are keeping their minds closed.
I knew that by exposing a celebrity, I'm going to receive all kinds of hate from people. Of course, who the hell am I? I'm just a senior high school student and a typical girl. No one knows me, and I wish it stayed that way (but that doesn't mean that I regret what I did). However, I am an outspoken feminist and people dear to me know that. I am against every form of disrespect to women. I am a woman with a bold personality who won't let anyone degrade me (but you guys already did), and that's why I exposed a celebrity. Why would I tolerate someone acting like that towards me? If that person weren't famous, I would still do the same, but that is the first time I encountered that and incidentally, the person involved is a well-known actor and that is utterly why I'm receiving all this hate.
It all started when he waved at me on messenger (You know the update). I replied with a like sign. I bet you already saw the screenshots. I cannot anymore retrieve our Facebook conversation since all his messages are marked as spam due to a reason I'm not quite sure of. Then he started asking me questions, like how old am I and all that. We live in the same city and province (Nueva Ecija). A celebrity messaged me and being polite, I talked to him nicely. Besides, it was just a friendly conversation. He asked for my number and I gave it since I know him (like I said same city kame & some of my friends know him too). He then asked me if I have a boyfriend, I said I don't have one because I'm still young for that. I asked him the same question, he answered with a "Kakabreak lang". He then asked me to videochat with him for me to be sure that it was really him "daw". It was his request. When I got home, I answered the call and he showed himself (that explains the screenshot 'yung hindi naka-pout) but it only lasted for a couple of minutes as in super ikli. After that, tapos na. We stopped talking but he would message me occasionally saying Hi and Good morning yung mga ganun lang. We were never really close, we were like more than acquaintances but less than friends. No flirting, like duh he's too old for me but a couple of days ago, he wanted to see me. I told him I can't because I was busy. I wasn't really busy (I'm never busy, my friends know that), I just didn't want to see him. That's my nice way of saying no. I'm pretty sure kung ikaw din, may nag-ask sayo makipag-kita then ayaw mo, hindi mo naman sasabihin directly na ayaw mo diba? So I made up an excuse. Then last last night happened. He called me (I was actually with my roommate who heard everything he said). He wanted to meet up. He said pupuntahan niya ako. I asked him, "bakit ba gustong gusto mong makipagkita?" Then he started saying vulgar statements. I don't want to repeat those words, they haunt me. My roommate told me to hold up and listen to what he has to say but I ended the call. However, he called again and this time my roomie decided to record it. He went on with his dirty words, I tried to keep my cool because my roomie was recording. I asked him again through call if he has a gf (I know at this point that he does since I saw his stories) but he still said na wala daw. At the end of the call, I told him that I don't want to have sex with him (as he was continuously asking me to) but he kept on texting me na pupunta siya sa Taft at makipagkita daw ako, kung magkita daw kami at hindi ko magustuhan then hindi na daw yun mauulit. He was like asking for one chance to meet up. I told him to stop, na may gf siya, na hindi ba siya nagguilty. I opened my messenger and tumatawag siya (videocall) and I answered to take a screenshot. He didn't show his whole face pa nga at first but I told him to show his whole face so he did (and nagpout pa). During those times, I was already thinking of exposing him because I was like "what kind of person is this". Ano yun, because you're famous you think you can get everything you want? I didn't want him ('di ko type older men no) so don't you dare tell me that it was my fault kasi inentertain ko siya. I didn't even entertain him! I was just being polite. Just like you, I didn't expect him to be like that. You don't know how afraid I was that night. I couldn't sleep, I felt so unsafe. You don't know how I felt. You don't understand because you weren't in my place. Some people were saying na ang swerte ko, na sana sila nalang, dude you guys dunno what you're saying. His voice still gives me creeps.
Out of motivation from other people saying that I must do the right thing, I did expose him. I was legit terrified because I know what would happen. I'm just no one so I was pretty sure that I'd be getting alot of hate but I didn't expect for it to go this far that's why I decided to speak up. 'Di ko inexpect na pati family niyo idadamay ko. I'm willing to battle alone, kahit ako lang, basta don't mess with my family kasi mas masakit 'yun. I didn't cry sa mga masasakit na words niyo sa'kin but when dinamay na mom ko, nagbreak-down ako. That is also why I decided to post this. I must say though that I'm also thankful that I had the courage to expose him because that's how I knew that I wasn't the only girl he showed indecency to. There are three other girls who messaged me, and the screenshots are on my Twitter account. Also, I hope Vickie finally gets the guy that she truly deserves. We already talked through Instagram.
I know some people still won't change their minds. May mga tao pa ring hindi maniniwala but everyone, please bear this in mind: I DIDN'T DO THIS FOR FAME, WHO WOULD WANT TO HAVE BASHERS? I did this to fight for myself and for every woman (and man) who experienced fear and trauma because someone sexually harassed them. Most victims won't fight back, but I did because I know that I had to even if that means putting my own safety and life at risk. and this is what I get in return (hate and threats). Thank you for everyone who believed in me. Thank you for everyone who fought with me. God bless everyone who degraded my personality and my family. God is still good. ☝🏻️
PS: the following photos are from other victims.
PPS: to those saying na pa-walk ako (i didn't even know what that meant until today), MIND YOU I'M A STUDENT OF A NICE INSTITUTION WHO DREAMS OF BEING A LAWYER! My parents buy me the stuff I need. I don't need anyone to do that shit for me.
Sunday, May 21, 2017
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The Student that was Allegedly Sexually Harassed by Jason Abalos Exposed the Other Girls that Suffered the Same Fate
The Student that was Allegedly Sexually Harassed by Jason Abalos Exposed the Other Girls that Suffered the Same Fate
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